I wish people
Mar. 16th, 2012 03:01 pmwouldn't judge. Or say things with that edge in their voice (by which you can tell they're unhappy) that just creeps up on your nerves, a little.
I think I've reached that level where I try really hard to be kind, and it bothers me when others are unkind. I want to go one step further and become a Zen Master -- where I can try hard to be kind if I want, but love everyone no matter how rude they are!
I want to know how to deal with certain cases though. Like, if someone complains a lot, and I'm not really into complaining, I don't want to complain with them BUT I don't want to rain on their parade either. So I end up being sort of silent (or saying things like uh-huh, I see, etc). Is that really okay? ._____.
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I think I've reached that level where I try really hard to be kind, and it bothers me when others are unkind. I want to go one step further and become a Zen Master -- where I can try hard to be kind if I want, but love everyone no matter how rude they are!
I want to know how to deal with certain cases though. Like, if someone complains a lot, and I'm not really into complaining, I don't want to complain with them BUT I don't want to rain on their parade either. So I end up being sort of silent (or saying things like uh-huh, I see, etc). Is that really okay? ._____.
繼續修練吧~~